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Having confidence to be me

The confidence to be yourself. This is a tricky one – often people say, “just love yourself”, but that is easier said than done, right? Loving yourself is important, don’t get me wrong, but it if you have spent years not liking the person you are, it is going to take some time to get to a place of self-love. You might not be able just to flick a switch, often you need to practice a few things before you have the confidence to be you. So, with that being said, here are some things you can practice.

First, you need to stop comparing yourself to others. I know, you have probably gotten into a habit of it, but the sooner you stop the better. You need to realise that you are on your own path, the only person you need to compare yourself to is you – as long as you better yourself in a way that you are comfortable with, that is okay. Comparing yourself to others will make you feel miserable. Slowly practice doing it less and less. It will it take time.

Stick with positive people. If the people in your life are negative or make you feel worse about yourself, it is going to be way harder to confident. You need to find people that will support you and build you up.

Take care of yourself. Self-care is different for everyone. You need to do things that make you feel comfortable. Meditating, eating well, exercise and sleep are ways that can you make yourself feel healthier and more confident. I understand that not everyone is going to able to do these kinds of things easily. Do what you can and be patient with yourself.

Be kind to yourself. If you make a mistake or fail, don’t be harsh on yourself. Realise that you not going to succeed every time. Be a good friend yourself, this will help you to feel more confident your own abilities.

Change how you talk to yourself. Become aware of how you talk yourself every day. If you find you are constantly being negative about yourself and your life, slowly change that. Start replacing the negative things you say to yourself with positive and optimistic statements. It is going to take time but trust me it works.

Face your fears. I know, this is hard but give it a try. Having the confidence to be yourself takes practice. Doing something that scares you, but that you truly want, shows that you can be achieve your goals. By pushing through the fear and doing it, you’ll realise that it wasn’t as scary as imagined. If you do something despite of your fear, you’ll have a bit more confidence to try it again.

Having the confidence to be you is to the realisation that you lack nothing. You already having everything you need for this moment and for the future. Realising will give you the confidence for life.

Good luck.

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The Subtle Art Of Not Giving A F*ck by Mark Manson
Manson advises us to get to know our limitations and accept them. Once we embrace our fears, faults, and uncertainties, we can stop running and begin to find the courage and forgiveness we seek.

You Are A Badass by Jen Sincero
By the end of You Are a Badass, you'll understand why you are how you are, how to love what you can't change and how to change what you don't love.

Awaken The Giant Within by Anthony Robbins
This book provides a step-by-step program teaching the fundamental lessons of self-mastery that will enable you to discover your true purpose, take control of your life, and harness the forces that shape your destiny.


Perks of Being a Wallflower
Charlie, a 15-year-old introvert, enters high school and is nervous about his new life. When he befriends his seniors, he learns to cope with his friend's suicide and his tumultuous past.

Eighth Grade
Kayla Day, an eighth grader, is introverted but also posts videos about self-confidence on the Internet. Later, she realises she is not the person she is pretending to be and overcomes her fears.

Little Miss Sunshine
A family decide to travel across the country when their daughter wants to participate in a beauty pageant, unaware of what the journey has in store for them.


This playlist will make you feel like you can conquer the world.


The Verywell Mind Podcast with Amy Morin
This podcast is crammed full of practical discussions and advice on everything from confidence to self-doubt.

The Self Esteem and Confidence Mindset
In this episode Jonny discusses chasing confidence and self-esteem. Sound familiar?

Confidence & Self Esteem Podcast
This episode discusses getting slightly out of your comfort zone and challenging yourself.

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