Let’s be honest, life is rough and sometimes we need support. A close circle of friends can help you deal with new challenges as they can offer your advice, support or just be there for you when the going gets tough. Friendships and companions have a really big impact on well-being and mental health – in the current day and age, it’s so important to be comfortable sharing your thoughts, feelings and struggles with your friends. Friendships are a unique type of relationship that are different to the connections we have with our family or a romantic partner. You choose who you are friends with.
Using the internet
If you’re struggling to find people who you connect with, social media is one of the greatest tools in meeting people. Online forums and social media groups that share interests such as video games, TV shows, or even niche hobbies you think no one else likes, are amazing places to find people like you.
While the internet is an amazing mechanism for finding friends, don’t shy away from the real thing – developing face to face connection is fundamental for any friendship, and is less daunting than it seems.
Making friends as an adult
Proximity and common interests are two really important elements of friendship; we generally gravitate to those we see daily and people who share the same hobbies or traits as us, as it provides a genuine basis for something to talk about. It seems like everyone’s already got an established group of friends, which makes it hard to make new friends. However, the forced proximity of a school setting can really aid in expanding social circles; being surrounded by other teens with common interests.
We are still forming our own identity, and dealing with the social pressure of growing up. These are issues that can be a bonding point for you and others. If you’re finding it difficult to interact with others your own age, try searching for common ground; maybe a viral Tik Tok or YouTube trend.
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